05.30.07

All in the (Foster) Family

(Continued from earlier posts: Part 1 and Part 2)

The ride to the PACCA was traumatic: I noticed the mother shaking and panting heavily in her cage; her tongue lolled out of her mouth. I kept telling her that I was sorry. The kittens were trying to climb out of their box, and I had to reach back several times to push them gently back inside.

When I arrived at the shelter, I asked everyone I could whether or not they thought that the kittens would be put down. One attendant looked at me, pointed to a sign on the wall, and read it out to me. The sign went something like this:

Due to overcrowding, we cannot accept any kittens under two pounds. Kittens weighing less than two pounds are likely to be euthanized.

Please consider providing foster care for your kittens until they reach two pounds.

I kept looking down at those cute kittens in the box. I had come in worried about the mother’s welfare, but now it looked like the entire group of cats might be endangered. A woman emerged from the back room and demanded to know who had brought these kittens in to the shelter. She told me that they were likely to be put down unless I could provide foster care for them, and she pleaded with me to take them in. I asked whether or not I could take only one or two, but she said that I shouldn’t separate the litter.

I couldn’t leave them to an uncertain fate. There wasn’t much I could do for the mother at this point, but it was within my power to save the kittens.

So I agreed to join PACCA’s foster parent program, and to provide foster care for these kittens. I didn’t even have time to clear this with my wife — I just made the decision to take them in.

We’ve now had the kittens in our downstairs bathroom for four and a half days. It has been an immensely rewarding experience so far. The kittens are all cute, friendly, and affectionate.

(click on pictures to enlarge)

When we brought the kittens into our home, they had never tasted food — having only had their mother’s milk, they didn’t even know what food was. They were hungry, but they’d walk up to the food, sniff it, and walk away. We eventually got them to eat wet food by getting them to lick little bits of it off of our fingers. They are now feeding regularly on both wet and dry food, and they all use the litter box.

Unfortunately, they also tend to frolic in the litter box, quite often after using it for other purposes. We’ve done more loads of laundry than I can count in recent days, and I’m constantly cleaning the floor of the room in which they’re living.

But I can’t tell you how happy it makes me when I see all four of these kittens going at their little plates of food! And how amazing it is when they meow at the sight of me, when they close their eyes and purr as I stroke their chins and bellies.

All four of the kittens are absolutely beautiful, and remarkably healthy for having lived outside for so long. We’ve named the two above Nigel (gray and white) and Celene (orange and white).

Nigel has a very special place in my heart, as he is the runt of the litter. He was the last one to eat, and he most needs affection. For a long time, he kept trying to suckle our fingers in search of food. Celene, who has a girl’s name but is actually a boy, is the strongest of the bunch and is amazingly sweet.

We refer to the other two kittens as “the twins.” They both have tiger-like black and yellow-gray stripes. One of them is a little smaller than the other, and a little more shy.

Part of what we’re doing is socializing the cats — getting them used to human contact. This process has made me wonder whether my own cat, Luna, had such a socialization process, because she can be a little resistant to contact. Judging by what I’ve seen so far, I think that all four of these kittens are going to grow up into kittens who love to be held.

We ran into a big issue two nights ago, when we discovered a flea on Nigel. Knowing the problem could spread if we didn’t act quickly, we flea-combed all of them (finding a total of three fleas), and then removed the kittens from the room, which we doused in a diluted bleach solution.

The next day, my wife and I spent a long time flea-combing and shampooing the kittens, and using flea spray and carpet powder on their entire living quarters. We did our last clean-up of the area last night. As of today, none of the kittens have flea dirt on them, so I hope I’ve tackled the problem by going ballistic on it.

Besides that issue, which I hope has been resolved, all of the cats appear to be in perfect health.

We can’t keep the kittens too much longer, so we’re going to give them to another foster family soon (perhaps tomorrow). The work we’re doing for them is amazingly rewarding, and indeed life-saving, but it is also time-consuming.

If you are interested in adopting (or fostering) one of more of the kittens, please get in touch. Before you adopt (and once the kittens have reached two pounds), the PACCA will spay the kittens and give them shots, etc., for the adoption fee of $25. And it’s “buy one get one free” season at the PACCA.

I have to say that these kittens are some of the most adorable felines I’ve ever been around. It’s obvious that they’ve quickly become socialized, as they enjoy attention and have no fear of humans. I would love to find happy homes for them.

I’m still trying to find out what has happened to the mother. If I had to do it all over again, I would have left the family in the backyard for another few weeks, until the kittens were fully grown. I don’t know whether I’ve done the right thing, but I do know that I’ve had the best intentions all along, and I hope that my fostering parenting of these kittens will make it more likely that they will be adopted and loved.

11 Comments on "All in the (Foster) Family"


mac:

That is the most awesome thing I’ve ever read! Well, except for the part where it was so difficult to make sure you could find a place for them where they wouldn’t be put down.

I’ve been considering fostering pets through my local SPCA. I don’t think it would cause a huge problem with my three cats and dog, but I suspect my collection of pets would double - I doubt I would have the will power to give up the pets when it was time for the fostering period to end. We’re big saps that way.


yoko:

That is a great thing you’re doing, taking care of the kittens and socializing them. I would love to adopt/foster, but I am very allergic to cats. I hope you find people to help you out soon.


Matt:

I appreciate the kind words, yoko and mac, but I don’t feel at all awesome right now. I brought the kittens back to the shelter today, before another foster family could be found. The vets there assured me that the kittens will find another foster family (and, eventually, an adoptive one), but I had hoped to hand the kittens off to another foster family so that they wouldn’t have to spend time in the shelter, where they face some risk of disease.

I’ll discuss this in a new post when I can bring myself to write it.


Spencer:

Good for you Matt. I wish we had room, but with two cats, we’re at our max.

Keep us posted.


catherine:

If only I were closer! I am sure that my small doggie would love a kitty sibling. He loves cats.

You did the right thing, Matt.


Kevin Wolf:

Matt, you did what you could and should have no regrets. Thanks for sharing the story.

I guess, with no pets of my own, I don’t think about all the (probably necessary) red tape involved in trying to do the right thing by all animals.


Jeff:

Hey Matt,

Your saga hits me at a funny time. As you know, I’ve had my hands full with the adorable poodle mix, Django, I adopted about a year ago. I just got back from the vet’s, where he got a couple of routine shots, and listened for the third time to my vet’s strong opinion that Django and the kid I’m expecting in August won’t mix. He thinks that I should “put Django down,” as the awful euphemism goes.

It’s a terrible moral dilemma, much like the one you’ve found yourself in, but worse insofar as we’ve had a year to bond. My options are:
a) call shelters and lie about his issues, concocting some kind of excuse as to why I have to give him up;
b) tell the truth about his very occasional but somewhat unpredictable fear-based aggression, knowing that no shelters will take him;
c) take him to the pound, which basically guarantees his death, after a very unpleasant number of days/weeks; or
d) have the vet do the deed for/with me.

I’ve tried b) extensively, and a) insofar as I’ve spun his good traits and soft-pedaled his bad. I’m unwilling to do c) under any circumstances, which leaves me at d). I guess there’s e), in the form of a friend who’s willing to take him on, baggage and all, but I’ve had no success after months of trying.

Anyway, I wanted to share this with you and yours: it’s certainly not what I expected or even imagined possible, but here I am… Oh, and if anyone reading this might be interested in adopting, by all means get in touch: he really is a wonderful fellow, even if he takes a little extra attention: jallred [at] gmail.com.


Matt:

You’re in a very tough spot, Jeff, and I’m not sure what to tell you. Maybe some regular commenters can suggest some ideas?

Here are a few options that come to mind:

1. Advertise the dog widely. Try the pets section of your local craigslist.

2. Try obedience training with an animal behaviorist in your area. Ask the person helping you to train the dog whether or not he or she agrees with your vet’s opinion.

3. Explore no-kill sanctuaries. (Add the name of your city to this google search). If you decide to give Django to a sanctuary, make a donation to provide for his care.

It seems to me that there are no easy or quick solutions to the problem you’re facing. Good luck.


Suzy:

What a horrible situation! Fear-based aggression is extremely hard to overcome, unfortunately, because the dangerous behavior arises from an uncontrollable response to unpredictable stimuli. I think Matt’s idea of an animal behaviorist is a very good one, and my favorite author/behaviorist is Carol Lea Benjamin (who also writes good mystery novels).I THINK she may not be taking clients now (though I don’t know that for sure) , but based on her books, I would certainly trust a referral she might give you.

IF your vet is right about our dog’s behavior (and very few vets get that insistent unless they’re really worried), you can’t risk having the dog near a baby. Nor do I think it’s fair to try to get someone else to adopt the dog unless a behaviorist can give you a detailed description of how to keep the dog safe around people AND the adopters are experienced dog lovers who really know what they’re getting into.

With dogs, as with humans, it is sometimes — sadly — the case that all our love and care cannot overcome early trauma or misfires in the brain’s hardwiring that happened before the dog came into our life. I wish you the best of luck in finding someone who might have the key to helping your dog — and you!


eRobin:

You and your wife are very kind to help the kittens. They are beautiful and look very healthy. I’ll be thinking good thoughts for the mom.


Elizabeth:

i have a kitten that looks exactly like the gray and white one, even right down to the markings around the eyes. my babies a girl and so i thought it was cute and looked like makeup. anyway. i am trying to figure out what kind of kitten breed she is, but have not been able to, so if you have any idea, could you pleaes let me know? thank you!


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